After that — alongside truly convinced and hoping concerning this — check with one of the pastors or elders whether
he realizes your and what they feels. If pastor or elder you ask doesn’t recognize him really, the guy can direct you to a trustworthy source that knows him or her best.
When you know the man nicely or perhaps a lot better than just what I’ve merely explained, but you are unclear whether you are sincerely interested in him, I’d encourage that a minimum of take more time to reach recognize him or her before supplying an unequivocal “no.” Take into account that this really unlike feigning attention if you findn’t any.